Monday, March 23, 2009

FORGIVENESS

ONE OF THE HARDEST-AND MOST IMPORTANT-WAYS TO EXPRESS LOVE IS THROUGH FORGIVING OTHERS.
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It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.
WILLIAM BLAKE
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I do agree with the above quote..It is easier to forgive your enemy rather than your own friend.. Maybe because you are directly expose yourself to them, and they can hurt you so much.
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Based from my experience, i have through so much difficulties because of myself-i don't want to learn to forgive the one who hurt me and also to my own self. As the circumstances, i became a quite and shy girl and have less friend and cannot accept any critism from anyone(sensitive).
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At my teen time i have a BF and unfortunately our relationship do not as smooth as i hope for. We broke our relationship and at that time, i've create a new feeling towards him-i swore to myself, i will never forgive him. I bring the unforgiveness feeling for several years. Until, when this one day, i've met him again-on the messenger. We chat like we are friends and suddenly i realize that i've misunderstood towards him and he seems had forgave me as he said-"ah..cerita lama jangan di kenang".. Then, from that moment on, i felt so good because there is no burden anymore..and i feel free!
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Now, there is no hatred i feel towards him. And, i would like to give my apology to him for what had happen. I am sorry.

2 comments:

C.Alv.B said...

Forgiveness is one of the key to happiness

fridaV said...

hehee...it does feel better when u forgive and forget.. hee.. im glad..